I have been aiming to update. Well, update with a real update, not quotes or site updates.
My life seems to be pushing on very quickly. This year has been such a big year. Let me take that back. Since August of 2009 has been a big life changing events. Cody and I got back together in September of 2008. After a few months of being broken up. Before that we was together for around a year. Since September of 2008 we have been fighting a battle called a normal relationship. Close to the one year mark of being back together we decided to move back in together. Which has been amazing this time around.
During this big move together we also decided to go from renting to buying. Which we only bought a small two bedroom trailer. It’s still a big deal. We also during this time was preparing for him to go from normal college guy to a solider. I dropped him off to leave for basic training January 4th 2010. After 10 weeks of him being gone I finally seen him on March 18th. I still didn’t get to bring him home but that’s okay. He gets done with AIT on May 7th. At that time he comes home.Which will be amazing.
Did I mention also, he asked me to marry him while he was away at basic. So, not only is he coming home on the 7th. We are getting married May 22nd. We had set the date for June before but with the idea of him maybe getting deployed scaring us we went ahead and wanted to get married. It wasn’t moving it up that much. Just less time to prepare.
When he does get home, we have to go a head and get everything for the wedding. Book our hotel. We have decided on Gatlinburg, TN for our honeymoon since we our only about 5 hours away. 🙂 I am so happy about it all. My life has finally started to come back together.
It still makes me smile thinking about everything. I am not staying that everything is perfect because it isn’t but at least I’m happy. I’m happy with the imperfections. I am happy with all of it. I couldn’t have got to this moment without some heartache and pain. But ask me if I would do it all again, I say yes. I would do it all again in a heart beat. I love him and wouldn’t trade any of it for anything. Everything happens for a reason. It’s so cheesy but true.